China "exports" much more women than it "imports"

The following is a forum post on MOP:

Translated by Jue, edited by Key


Chinese brides account for 72% on average of the foreign wives South Korean men marry. In 2006, tens of thousands South Koreans married foreign women including around over 10 thousand Chinese girls. However, in the same year, only 2,590 Chinese men married Korean women. That means in the transnational marriages between China and South Korea China "exports" 4 times women than it "imports" which is equivalent to sending about 10 thousand Chinese women to South Korea and adding 10 thousand Chinese bachelors. So people often say humorously, in the past China sent those "volunteers" to support the Korea War and now China again sends "an army of women" to assist marriages in South Korea. But, who will come over to support Chinese men?

There’s serious imbalance of sex ratio in China, but this country which lacks women the most has become the country that "exports" women the most. As a result, many countries have drawn a conclusion that China has made more progress than other countries in aspect of marriage. But is that true? I’m afraid nobody agrees to it.

Among the female students studying abroad, honestly many have successfully finished their studies and came back home. For those foreign men, it’s not easy to pursuit an oriental beauty. If I remember correctly, an overseas student once told me, "When living abroad, you would find, as time passes by that those foreign men are not as good as people always say. They have many habits which are not suitable for Chinese women in terms of culture, diet, communication and other areas.

There are many local men hitting on Chinese overseas students, but most of them are just flirting with Chinese girls so the smart ones won’t accept such pursuit. Of course, some easy girls still accept it or even using that to actively seeking for ways to permanently stay abroad, for their "face" (or Mianzi) and "status". However, in most cases, after graduation the couples end up going their separate ways, and those girls who supposedly "lost faith in love" carry their luggage and go back to China, even say Chinese guys are still better. I didn’t say that, but I heard it with my own ears!

Sure enough, most overseas students who have come back may not treat foreigners that enthusiastically and optimistically. Maybe in their eyes, there’s not much difference between East and West. However, things are quite the opposite domestically. First, let’s not talk about marriage yet, we can find a phenomenon in many universities that no foreigners (men) remain bachelordom and they all have a beautiful Chinese girl accompanied. Not just those who study in China, only a few foreigners (men) in China are still single, I am just guessing, because where I live the foreigners walk in and out with Chinese girls all the time.

Looking for a foreign boyfriend, to tell the truth, in most cases is for money, and I can guarantee this. Can you see the expression in their eyes, the girls that are with foreigners? I smirked. People always say there are no words written on one’s face, but these girls’ faces are filled with arrogance and vanity. May I ask, how many girls can these foreign students take home after studying aboard? And how many girls will come back home once taken abroad? A women from Shanghai said, "Shanghai women were born for foreigners." I just wanted to say to her “you don’t deserve to be a Chinese.”

Actually most girls have foreigners as boyfriends to satisfy their vanity, or rather, they just worship foreign things, believing everything abroad is better than in China. As if their heads just been kicked by a donkey! Of course, I don’t oppose having foreign boyfriends. Everyone is equal in the name of love and everyone wants a happy family, which is not the privilege of foreigners. But a sweet family is built on the basis of love, you won’t get your happiness if your husband is a playboy even if he’s a god.

It’s kind of exaggerated when I said foreigners came to China to "grab" Chinese girls, but it originally came from one of my friends. Once there were several westerners talking on the subway, their conversation was heard by a man who knew English. They were talking about how many Chinese girls they had been with and one of them said five and soon got laughed at, and then another man said he had been with more than 10. Why is that? One of them added, it was easy to get a Chinese girl and most of them even ask foreigners out first. As long as you take a girl somewhere fancy, you won’t fail to get her even if she had a boyfriend then. He also said Chinese women are way too "stupid". Well, this is what the foreign students think of our "female students". Certainly it didn’t represent the thoughts of all the foreigners, but it was enough to tell us what our female students are like in those foreigners’ eyes.

Then we go back to see how the girls worship foreign things. Sometimes some female students go buy something in the store but speaking in English. Others think they are foreigners and the store owner also is puzzled. But as they get out of the door and speak fluent Chinese, we then realize they are just fooling the store owner.

However, there are quite a few happy transnational families. In fact, many foreigners living in China for long have already got accustomed to the Chinese lifestyle both in culture and diet. The only thing left is whether they can stay in China and live a normal family life. Of course, when coming into Chinese society, there’s no boundary when it comes to love. Chinese people and foreigners are the same except for their skin and appearance.

Back to the point, love cannot be possessed by worshipping foreign things, nor can happiness be gained by marrying a foreign man. Moreover, they are not what you take to show off. If you do so, you give us a reason to despise you rather than envy you.

It should be stressed again that there’s serious imbalance in sex ratio in China, but we seldom see overseas (male) students take foreign wives home. On the contrary, we always find foreigners take Chinese women abroad. To make things worse, almost all the foreigners coming to China have Chinese girls’ accompanied they wish!

  1. I know it happened in the past to Japanese, Korean and Philippines women as well. At one time and others, US has military bases in those countries. So there are quite a few Asian military brides in the US. I met many of them when I attend Asian Festival in the US and most of them came US when their home countries are less wealthy. The only hope is that when China becomes wealthier, the perception is changing as well.

    I know we are talking about “foreign worship” in China, I believe that “foreign worship” is an issue for many Asian countries, not just China. I read similar comments like yours on Korean Time. There was even Korean nationalist movement backlash against foreigners because of this issue.

    1. Korean guy will spin this one good. Even if China develops there will always be those who see a better life outside China due to the massive population, lack of diversity, and competition for jobs and resources.

  2. no point because Chinese women would obviously go for the white man.

    they love sucking up to white man’s ass.

  3. I hope everyone gets who they deserve as if God were a yenta.

    Matchmaker, matchmaker make me a match!

  4. Oh yes! Suddenly China is short of women, and poor guys stay bachelors.

    And who created this gender imbalance? Who aborts and kills females? Koreans?

    And how about a “clever” proposal that Mao once made to Kissinger?

    Amid a discussion of trade in 1973, Chairman Mao Zedong made what Secretary of State Henry A. Kissinger called a novel proposition: sending tens of thousands, even 10 million, Chinese women to the United States.
    “You know, China is a very poor country,” Mao said, according to a document released by the State Department’s historian office. “We don’t have much. What we have in excess is women. So if you want them we can give a few of those to you, some tens of thousands.”

    A few minutes later, Mao circled back to the offer. “Do you want our Chinese women?” he asked. “We can give you 10 million.”


    1. Hey Crystal,

      ‘Who aborts and kills females? Koreans?’

      YES. YES. YES! Koreans abort and kill females! HEL-LO! Abortion is the most common form of birth control in South Korea. Gender imbalance is a HUGE problem in Korea right now.

      Pre-natal sex screening was illegal there until a few years ago, because people would abort females in preference of a male child. Do your research before you start making claims~~~

  5. meh. its just all an evil diabolical plan for china to overtake the world.
    if you cant beat ’em, you breed ’em out.

    1. Chinese women> Korean women – naturally
      Chinese women> Korean women with surgery in terms of comparing the top

      Korean women only win when you compare those with a lot of surgery with those with no surgery and are in the lower ends of the beauty spectrum.

  6. who to blame for the mainland gender imbalance?

    thank for glorious GREAT P.O.S. Mao Zedong, Deng XiaoPing, Jiang ZeMin, Hu Jintao and Wen Jiabao for their “one-child policy” and NOT changing it causing all the great glorious imbalance, the numerous souls not given a chance to live, and hundreds of millions of little emperors or empresses today. yay, glorious…

    I feel for those living in mainland China having a gov’t thinking their citizenry are stupid, mindless meatbots incapable of though or opinion.

  7. I asked my friend why she likes to date foreign guys. She answered with three questions:

    “Do you know any Chinese guys as clean as the foreigners I date?

    Do you know any foreigners that tuck their shirts under their armpits in the summer?

    Do you know any Chinese guys that I can go to a coffee shop with and not complain that we’re wasting money? When I’m the one paying!”

    These aren’t things that are hard to fix, guys. Step up your game!

    Did you know that when some of my Chinese friends check out guys they actually point out how clean they look before they say he’s hot? “他看着真干净,好帅啊!”

  8. Look, Chinese girls are all slim, healthy, intelligent, can all sing and play sport and most of them study hard too. They never have the “psychological issues” that Western girls do. Chinese girls are great fun to be with! Now, fewer than 1% of American girls are all of those things!

    From my experience, the author’s wrong about most Chinese-Foreigner relationships being about money. Many girls here—students or fuerdai—are richer than us foreigners. As a result of gold-digger-phobia, I only date Chinese girls who are richer than myself—and there’s no shortage, even by that rule.

    1. You must be dirt poor then, if a Chinese girl dates you and is “rich” she’s only rich because she’s dating 10 other foreigners at a time.

      99.9% of Chinese girls would never even consider dating a foreigner. But when that .1% of the population dates 5, 10, 20, 30 guys a month then yes, it’s not inconceivable that foreigners will delude themselves into thinking they are preferred.

      If you have one girl that spreads her legs (assuming she actually is Chinese, and actually is female, and not a Southeast Asian tranny) for 10 different foreign men a month you technically have 10 interracial couples.

      Get your blood checked is all I have to say.

  9. I get the same comment but they were in reverse for the black guys. They would like to have my secret baby but only if I can get them out of the country away from their family and some other underlying devious plan to leave me and take all my money like my ex wife tried.

    In response to foriegn guy, they have the same problems western women do but with a Chinese characteristic. Trust me some have allot of problems that your women probably have not presented to you but rich women will show their true colors eventually and your lacking will be your demise in the relation ship because then they will have you by the short and curlies.

      1. I love getting on the elevator at my apartment. The young girls think I dont understand. Typical convo amongst waitresses young chinese girls, and hookers at the KTV,
        Girl 1: Look at the tan guy
        Girl 2: I know, he’s too dark
        Girl 1: African, pretty sure
        Girl 2: yeah, but not from africa proper
        Girl 1: wat ever he has really nice eyes they are big and round
        Girl 2: hes smiling you think he understands?
        Girl 1: I don’t know very possible
        Girl 2: Would you do him?
        Gill 1: I don’t know the other day I saw a mixed baby and it was very pretty and its hair was great/ cool.
        Girl 2: yeah and I hear they are smart because the blood line is not the same (something of that nature)
        Girl 1: I don’t know if my family is so open to such relationship maybe if he makes allot of money, or if I could go home with him but what would would I do in his home town. What if he is African then what would I do.
        Girl 2: ask him why he came to china
        Girl 1: no Im afraid he won’t understand
        Girl 2: you don’t know english?
        Girl 1: all I know is “halo” and “walcum tuh chyna” hahaha
        Girl 2: hjahahhahhahahaah
        Girl 1: Fine i’ll talk to him (in chinese) hello can you speak chinese? Really you understand? Wow your beijing accent is way better than real chinese from other parts!!!
        Girl 2: very good so where are you from? America where are your parent from? huh? America is a white country, there are no blacks?
        Girl 1: How long have you been in China, 7 years oh wow really, did you study chinese or here for work?
        Girl 2: oh yeah every month how much is your pay check? Fuck!!!
        Girl 1: are you married ? aww why did you get a divorce? was she chinese or foreign?
        Girl 2: Of course she didn’t love you she was from dong bei those are bad girls. They only love money. Did you buy a house? I know they are bad girl.
        Girl 1: Yeah, if you bought me a house I would kind of love you too.haha joking
        Girl 2: Im a southern girl, we are better much simpler women. We are poor but we don’t care about money. (you can reverse the last 2 entries for when I come in contact with girls from beijing)
        Girl 1: Why don’t you marry a girl from where you are from? Is chinese better or your girls?
        Girl 2: oh well maybe we can become friends and you can teach me english.
        Girl 1: you are too stupid to learn english haha, I only know a little from primary school. But i forget. give us your number and when ever we are not working we can hang out, ok nice to meet you.

        I kid you not this is how it happens every time I go out alone or meeting up with my chinese partners in slum town Beijing. Never fails.

          1. The best revenge is to insert a hand grenade into their vaginas and blow them to Kingdom Cum…that’s called the White Man’s Burden…

  10. How about the fact that, at almost any university in China, the vast majority of English majors are women, while there are almost none in engineering or hard sciences? Where do these “loose women” meet their foreign boyfriends? Not in math class, its when they are practicing English. On the flip side, the majority of foreign students in China are male.

    This, I think, seems to be a much more valid reason for the huge discrepancy in dating habits between Chinese men and women, rather than the simplistic, sexist, and racist argument provided in the article.

    Why Chinese women major in English more often than engineering is another question, but I sincerely doubt they sign up to meet men (here at Zhejiang Technical University, there’s about a 30:1 ratio of women to men in the English department, while the opposite holds true in engineering).

    Before we go about calling Chinese women who date foreigners sluts and gold-diggers, lets do some real journalism, ChinaHush. You’re better than that.

    1. Truth hurts. 90% of them are sluts and gold diggers, 100% are average or unattractive, and they date way, way out of their league (traveled, college educated, relatively wealthy foreigners).

  11. this post is so biased…

    key of good journalism is objectivity Mr Hush.. you FAILED.

    nevetheless, i have to say i had a great Saturday night 😉 😛

  12. I’m a westerner living in China, and I’ve been married for more than 5 years to a Chinese wife. My opinion for why there’s such an imbalance: Chinese men (Japanese men too) aren’t manly enough. Women want a real MAN’s man. Many asian men are typically feminine-acting. And the ones that don’t act effeminate typically have the attitude of a jerk, because they act as if their family / wealth deserves to be worshiped. Really distasteful, and unattractive.

    Western men and Chinese women really is a perfect match. Chinese men are effeminate, and rarely respect their wives. They treat them more like servants. Western woman are self-centered and demanding. Finally Western men run from their woman, and Chinese women run from their men, to find a perfect match in the middle.

    I feel sorry for all the single Chinese men and Western women. Just ask any Western woman living in China, they tell you how they feel completely lonely and ignored by ALL men, Chinese and Western. Too bad!

    1. You should feel sorry for all the single men from your country, many of whom cannot please their women, so they have to solicit the performances or services (often forced) of the approximate 250,000 sexually exploited children (USA, double that number if you count Europe and SE Asia), which fits their small manhood better.

      On a different note, even the far grater numbers of “legitimate” sexual-exploitation with consenting adult females for the soaring population of lonely guys here in the west is problematic. I’ve a friend who immigrated to the USA from China whom was seduced by a woman on fairly large-sized boulevard in the Los Angeles area, after he agreed to her proposal, she brought her to a nearby motel room where cops and a bunch of hapless lonely white guys were waiting as the anti-prostitution sting operation continued through the night. Poor western men just can’t get it going in our god-fearing nation of “free speech” and “democracy” and rivaling masculinity of powerful black men.

    2. White men are the most effeminate of all. Most of the masculine Chinese guys already have wives. In fact Chinese men are more likely than any other man to be married, stay married, and stay loyal.

      But you do get some trashy sluts like your wife who sleep around with many men. There are some women in China who prefer smaller dicked foreign men, because they know when your mixed race daughter turns 5 you’re going to start doing her. The fact that you won’t be able to hold an erection then is good for her kids.

    3. “I feel sorry for all the single Chinese men and Western women. Just ask any Western woman living in China, they tell you how they feel completely lonely and ignored by ALL men, Chinese and Western. Too bad!”
      Um, I’m not sure where you’re getting this assumption from, but I am a Western woman living in Asia, and I have to say it is quite the opposite. I’m never ignored by local men, even if they are with their girlfriends. It is also true for my white/black/indian/latino westerner female friends here. It is very, very easy to date Asian men. They dream of being with a beautiful, blonde American woman. So, don’t feel sorry for us, dude, cause we can go on a date with a different guy every day of the week if we want to. My friends and I are never lonely. The guys we date are very attractive and successful, by both Western AND Asian standards of beauty. So, na! na!

      P.S. It is true that most western women are ignored by western men here, but, that’s ok, because most western men in Asia are too short, ugly, and jobless in their native countries (I don’t want to date someone like that anyways).

  13. AHAHAHAHA this “translated” article specifically didnt include the part where it was SHANGHAI women.

    as usual.

    1. oh, and the highest rated comments is about how the one who wrote this cant seem to distinguish between friendly outings because the foreigner is a guest in China vs dating as a couple.

      oh… more thing…

      Chinese women find foreign men less attractive in financial crisis

      Foreign Men Placed on the Discount Rack by Shanghai Women

      Have Chinese Girls Lost Interest in Foreign Men?

      Foreign men found less attractive as economy slumps

      Chinese Girls Snub Poorer Foreigners

      Chinese husbands welcomed in Russia

      Why Chinese guys choose their brides from Russia

      Chinese men are hard-working, they don’t abuse in alcohol drinking and bring their wages home. In a word, they have lots of advantages by contrast with Russian men.”

      One feature of the Russian-Chinese relationship seemed especially telling: Cross-border marriages are overwhelmingly between Chinese men and Russian women.

      1. Which is why when Colonel Khadaffi was winning the war against the rebels and announced that he wanted to invite China back to rebuild the oil industry and infrastructure, the white-pride penis shriveled-up and initiated the “no fly zone” (with the stretched-penis benefit of CLOSE-AIR SUPPORT/pseudo-ground war) just days later. The north Africans now facing the high-tech micro-penis wrath of allied air power supplemented with askew Islamo-phobia, racial-profiling, Koran book burning, full body scanning, “no fly zone” advertising, etc, omg, wtf, lol.

        1. Now, go to eastern Lybia, say this to the locals, and then enjoy having your head smashed into pieces.

  14. God damn it’s hard for a Chinese man these days. It seems that you can’t get laid anywhere in the world LOL


    1. That women you’ve been dreaming about, well I’m afraid she got laid by a Chinese man. And for you to jack-off your teeny-weeny to porn does not constitute “getting laid” either.

      In any case, the author of blog is a bit too subjective and can use more facts to dispel the personal misery. Certainly the economic and modern societal development disparity had supported such trends, but has become much less prevalent in recent times as Chinese people, including the female members are becoming more awakened and in many cases to excel in career and artistic expression alongside of their male counterparts……. but I should also say from my own experience with friendship circles in China, that sex in China is in fact a very casual thing for most local men and women, with plenty of “sex shoppes”, and it’s quite common for a Chinese man to mate and marry a foreign wife, especially those of European descent, whether from UK, France, USA, Australia, Russia, etc. This is a way for a man who is normally confined within the One-Child family planning policy to have additional children, and for a foreign women to find a decent hard-working man.

      But what’s the big deal about AMWF??? It’s very NORMAL!!!!!! I have KNOW/seen many people born of Chinese fathers/caucasian mothers. Even many famous people with Chinese/Asian dad and white moms or wives: actor Russell Wong, comedian Tommy Chong, war hero Art Chin, actress Kelly Hu, author Timothy Mo, author Ted Wang, athlete Paul Kariya, Apolo Ohno, Dr. Brent Ching (and his family, R.I.P., so tragic!!!), and TOO MANY MORE TO LIST,as these are just some names more/less in media spotlight.

  15. The average man/woman is materialistic and shallow, but then again, what depth is there to mating in the first place? You fuck because nature told you to fuck, and I’m sure there’s some evolutionary explanation for why people prefer the mates they do. Chinese men are probably not very well adapted for the current mating environment, but the women don’t really care.

  16. Interesting piece of article. Don’t think it mentions the “Chinese” women go marries South Korean guys are usually ethnic Koreans who comes from the Korean area in Jilin. I don’t think its so simply about love, its about economics, Chinese woman want to go abroad for one thing. Get a blue passport.

  17. Terrible article filled with the typical stereotypes and racist views which Mainland Chinese like to cast on Westerners and other foreigners. Why is it always a zero-sum situation when a Westerner dates or marries a Chinese woman? I’ve dated Chinese women before and I’ve always been kind and decent to them. It’s hard for some Mainland Chinese people to admit that a Chinese woman could really love a Western man and vice versa. However, it happens frequently. And besides, you think every marriage between a Chinese man and a Chinese woman is made in heaven? Having a common culture is just one factor in the success of a relationship.

    1. I’m glad you think like that and it’s encouraging. However you are in the minority. Go down Wudaokou or Sanlitun or anywhere in Beijing and you will see lots of white-hunting Chinese sluts and Western guys who no western woman would want acting like kings, and being treated like kings. I am not denying that true love exists but I believe when I see it, and I have maybe seen it once or twice in my whole time there.

  18. If you look 100 to 200 years back, you’ll find most interracial marriage between Chinese overseas is between Chinese man and non-chinese woman. It’s common to find decendant of chinese man and thai wife in Thailand. The previous prime ministers of Thailand had Chinese grandfather and thai grandmother. The trend is common in most parts of South East Asia. In Hawaii, many chinese male laborer marries polynesian (hawaiian) females during the gold rush and Chinese excusion act.
    Most resident of Cuba Chinatown ( El Barrio Chino) are offsprings of Chinese great-grandfather and mestizo great-grandmother.

    1. In fact almost 20-30% of Koreans and Japanese (and Mongols, and Manchus) are descended from Sino-Tibetan y-DNA, so the alleged tap sum dong Korean is going to have to try harder to troll.

      Sino-Tibetans started as one tribe and spread their genes (male and female) to every corner of East and Southeast Asia through sheer merit.

  19. Korean women probably don’t want to marry Chinese men because Korean men are, on average, much more attractive. Korean men are taller, more fashionable, and have better grooming and hair styles than Chinese men. Just look at K-pop stars and Korean drama actors compared to Chinese pop-stars and actors. Now, I’m not saying that all Chinese men are ugly, I think that if you look at a handsome Chinese man vs. a handsome Korean man, the handsome Chinese man will definitely win. But, if you look at 100 men on the sidewalks of Seoul as compared to 100 men on the sidewalks of Beijing, Seoul will have a much higher number of hotties. Korean women and men are some of the most superficial people on the planet, so of course there isn’t going to be a lot of Korean women going for ugly Chinese men. Sorry Chinese guys!

  20. I don’t like the personality of Koreans in general because majority of them nowdays believe in the false prophets and false god of Abraham.

  21. Belive it or not, the first intermarriage between Asian man and white woman in America during the gold rush is between a Chinese laundryman and an Irish woman.

  22. hahaha Look at the dogs (K & C) fighting amongst themselves!!! In our minds you are all gooks and we will ram our white lances all the way up all your women!!! Our women won’t glance at any of you, while yours are all for the taking! We rule! You don’t! The logic of dominance…

  23. Guys Most of the Asian countries have been fucked very badly and the wealth of those countries been pondered by many western so called nations. I would say stop fighting between each others its like you guys are acting like my dick is bigger than yours. There is no point in blaming each other. Everybody knows ones weakness and strength. Work on the weakness and make it better rather than spitting when your facing upwards

  24. These guys are most of the time dead on their political gambits. They endure as a interesting perspective. I pray The Young Turks will continue be corageous enough to tell it like it is and counter the GOP funded Fox Network propaganda.

  25. ummmm …who’s admin here?? you should really flag or watch all these unnecessary racist commments….

  26. Good article.
    I wish the type of Chinese women from mainland China you talk about in your article would stop worshipping foreigners (whites). The same women treat other Asians like crap but worship whites. IDIOTS! it’s pathetic and disgusting. Get some national pride, you traitors.

  27. China women are pigs all over, in and out of China.

    In all western countries many custom officials, cops and white customers see China women as hookers or some kind of sex worker. And they are right many times.

  28. The comments on this thread by a lot of Chinese men loudly illustrate one important reason why many Chinese women are opting for foreign men – small-minded Chinese men. Women, especially the more open-minded Chinese women who consider dating foreigners, don’t like immature men with petty, jealous attitudes. Look at all the racist comments here saying that white men in Asia are losers and that Chinese women who date/marry foreigners are traitors. I’ve had relationships with some very successful and well educated women from Mainland China and Taiwan and I hear some common complaints about Chinese men: don’t treat women like equals, spoiled, emotionally immature, control freaks, obsessed about looks and don’t care about a woman’s intellectual qualities, too feminine (some Taiwanese guys). Some of you Chinese guys might bad-mouth me on the internet, but you’re not gonna be able to compare with me (in the eyes of Chinese women) unless you grow up and start developing your mind.

  29. Well
    I have to start by stating, what is the big deal? A women can so choose whom she ends up with .However you must come to realize that women that demand this or that, really have not accomplished anything in their lives to merit they are special or unique. Just another stupid human being perpetuating old feudal ways. We do live in the year 2012 and year 4710 in the Chinese calendar .Those that strongly identify with culture and preservation of it so strongly have not done anything grand in life. So thus if they feel part of the collect they feel validated. I happen to Caucasian, and I have dated several races. A portion of women are demanding others are not .It is not race specific .It’s all probability and circumstance you’re in life .Those that see me for my wallet or success are thrown out the window. I do not have time to waste on women that do not value my character. Besides why would want I want someone who sees the easy way out to reach success, it shows they have very little backbone or character to pursue their wants and needs. You have to remember you are human being first. A female or male 2nd, and a race/ethnicity 3rd.All great men and women think as I have mentioned. Those that thing as race/ethnicity as the primary movement for dating are motivated by social pressures and conformist way or fetishes .The reality is many Asian men or women who comment of how the Caucasian men that live in china are losers. Not all of them are. Some speak several languages, I speak 6. Well educated. However I would consider moving to china not to make it there because I “could not” make it here. Far from it, I would go to China simply to expand my company for a few years. The worlds are becoming global and if you do not like it go back to feudal ways and pre social evolutionary ways. Social evolution is more important than primitive selective ways .Principally because it shows you are evolved as a human being. Those that adhere to it strongly. Are either intimidated or jealous of an Asian girl dating white/brown/other Asian are afraid your identity that being your culture will cease to exist, let’s be frank it’s your insecurity. Grow up and let the world grow into another stage of social evolution where men and women have equal rights and we love each other for character, and communication. We need to realize the following whether you be Asian, white, black, Latino, Indian what have you .That the world is very different from what it was 600 years ago. And do we want to retrograde to that kind of mentality and its “lifestyle” of course not. We have choice and each one of us has to respect another’s decision. Is that not an important mannerism in china, respect? I respect all races, so thus I expect the same. Just be yourself and remember you are what you project and if women are solely after men for money, or career or security, then why don’t you go back 600 years when disease was rampant , rape was much more common and you had no rights? I guess no huh? You want to have your cake and eat it too, the best of most worlds. Men all over the world are experiencing this “self-entitlement “ from women because I have a vagina .Frankly it will end in the near future and men will again be much selective with women .So they do not end up divorced .Just my 2 cents.

  30. Southeast Asia has longest experience with han chinese immigration back to 500-1,000 years ago. China’s tradition is opposite to the world. She produces only han chinese men. China’s motto is that women are toilets. Han chinese are nothing men but just gay queens unable to win any bloody war. they are not dangerious but never useful to the world. i’m thai. my father is Thai ethic, and my mother is han chinese. lot lot han chinese migrated to Thailand up to 500 years ago. we blame chinese for saying women are just toilets. Han chinese residents in Thailand are very ashamed with their cutlure. So han chinese in thailand produce lot lot han chinese girls instead of men. That’s why my father is Thai and mother is han chinese. Southeast Asia has longest experience with han chinese immigration back to 500-1,000 years ago. China’s tradition is opposite to the world. She produces only han chinese men. China’s motto is that women are toilets. Han chinese are nothing men but just gay queens unable to win any bloody war. they are not dangerious but never useful to the world. i’m thai. my father is Thai ethic, and my mother is han chinese. lot lot han chinese migrated to Thailand up to 500 years ago. we blame chinese for saying women are just toilets. Han chinese residents in Thailand are very ashamed with their cutlure. So han chinese in thailand produce lot lot han chinese girls instead of men. That’s why my father is Thai and mother is han chinese or simply chinese in English

  31. Southeast Asia has longest experience with han chinese immigration back to 500-1,000 years ago. China’s tradition is opposite to the world. She produces only han chinese men. China’s motto is that women are toilets. Han chinese are nothing men but just gay queens unable to win any bloody war. they are not dangerious but never useful to the world. i’m thai. my father is Thai ethic, and my mother is han chinese. lot lot han chinese migrated to Thailand up to 500 years ago. we blame chinese for saying women are just toilets. Han chinese residents in Thailand are very ashamed with their cutlure. So han chinese in thailand produce lot lot han chinese girls instead of men. That’s why my father is Thai and mother is han chinese. CHINESE MEN ARE EASY TO BE MASSACRED. CHINESE MEN HAVE NO POWER TO PROTECT CHINESE WOMEN. So my mother is chinese who submits herself to my Thai dad. lot lot han chinese girls born from han chinese immigrant families.

  32. Most White men don’t date Asian women. The ones who do date Asian women do it because they hate White women. They’re cowards and race traitors. They can’t handle an independent White woman so they have to downgrade, they also prefer a woman with the body of a young boy.

  33. excuse me white people are the new niggas of the world! whom do you speak for? and whom said you can speak on behalf of any race, whether it be black, white , asian, latino etc etc. Last time I checked whites invented a lot of things in the modern world.Something A “monkey” would not do . a monkey is someone who does not really do anything for society has a whole and just multiplies .Hmm last time I checked a lot of groups excessively reproducing were not caucasian but ELSEWHERE

  34. You low lives trolling this thread isn’t doing anything for society. Just STFU with your vulgar comments, it’s not like you’re going to change the world. I didn’t know these douche bags were such big shots, hiding behind a computer. Comparing ethnicity now? WTF. There’s apparently Asians here bashing on each other (unless they’re just foreigners pretending to be Asian), and this White trash with too much free time bashing on Koreans. I wonder if these trolls are going to continue with their garbage to the next century? No need for grammar check, it’s not like these idiots are important people with integrity, who can discuss a topic or an article civilly. The germs they spread will vaguely be remembered.

    To the White trash, bashing on Koreans. The more you repeat yourself, the more you become bland. Talk about nuking Korea? Okay White nigga of the world since you feel so powerful. Screw every Korean women who seem to need a good fucking. Then, try to bomb Korea, or hell, all of Asia. Action speak louder than words. Make sure you make the worldwide news, and if you end up in prison for life, preach your inmates about how the White devil came to be, like they would care. If you get the death penalty, you can yap out of your lungs about Koreans or Chinese, or whatever is up your ass, before going to hell you fucking hypocrite.

    For those of you who are visiting this website for China news, don’t bother reading these comments. Most of them irrelevant, hate messages that get nowhere, and simply spam.

  35. This article seems to be trying to talk Chinese women out of dating foreign men or some sort of mental navel gazing trying to come to terms with it, I actually cant understand why so many Chinese women are so desperate to be serviced by foreign boys ,I have heard Chinese guys are a little clumsy in bed.

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  37. this seem to be a trend everywhere you go, chinese girls are the most likely to date out, but theres a problem with this, no matter whom they mate with, their descendents will be chinese, most of the times.

    If you go to southeast asia, you’ll see tons of chinese girls with native south east asian males, southasian males, and sometimes black males, you’ll almost never see the other way around.

    It seem like chinese females prefer the darker males over the light skin males, just like everywhere else, white males are not their first preference, that’s why you’ll see white males with the ugliest asian/chinese girl everywhere you go.

    But east asian females been mating with other males for thousands of years, look up the tarim mummies from wikipedia:

    “They suggest that an admixed population of both west and east origin lived in the Tarim basin since the early Bronze Age. The maternal lineages were predominantly East Eurasian haplogroup C with smaller numbers of H and K, while the paternal lines were all West Eurasian R1a1a. The geographic location of where this admixing took place is unknown, although south Siberia is likely”

  38. all white males especially the american males came to this site and bragging about their conquest of chinese or east asian females are lost in reality, they sound very gullible male…..have no ideas of what is going on in the world….sad!

    these males have no idea how the mating games works….they will be in east asian males shoes next…..what a sad sad human

  39. Gotobell is wrong. Majority of Intermarriage between Chinese and Southeast Asians are between Chinese men and Southeast asian women. If you visit Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, Philippines, Malaysia and Indonesia you’ll see the evidence. Only intermarriage between Chinese and Indians is predominatly Indian men with chinese women. The product of those interracial marriages were eventually balanced out unlike those in USA. Majority of the female “Cindians” (Chinese-Indian offsprings) marry Chinese males and Majority of Sino-Thai (Chinese-thai offspring) females marry Thai men. Only in the West, Hapa (eurasian) females usually choses white males which causes the imbalance.

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  41. i married chinese american.. best husband and my soul mate…
    we both love US . he will never go back to china and I won’t go back to S.Korea. Both county is prettty horrible in terms of human rights and corruption.
    USA rule!

    1. Wait until the racists weatern pigs get you on the empty streets or in the subways.

  42. This conversation makes me sick. Over 30 years ago I married my Japanese wife and heard the same stuff then about Japanese women. It really does not matter who you marry so long as you stay married. Same with marrying a Chinese lady or a Chinese man marrying a foreign lady. No big deal.

  43. Hmmmmn, I have a lot of white male FRIENDS – I wonder how often we get mistaken as a couple.

    I’m not a Chinese woman in China – I’m a Canadian (from Hong Kong), but if I was in their /position/, my motive for preferring foreigners will be strings-free-fun. I don’t want to get married, especially not NOW – from what I hear, Chinese guys seem to take things too seriously – there was a Chinese guy who called the police on a Chinese girl who invited him over for a one-night-stand!

    If I was a Chinese girl in China, I would not fool around with a Chinese guy – there is a chance he might know my family or my friends or my boss! The local Chinese guy is also LOCAL – meaning I will run into him day after day after we broke up – that’s awkward.

    For fun, I would pick the foreigner who is obviously looking for the same kind of fun (and won’t stay, “bang bang bang, bye bye bye!” – and if things end up turning badly, if he turns out to be a psycho, well, he’s a foreigner, I can get him deported!

    Also, from the news, I think as a Chinese girl being hit by a Chinese guy, I probably won’t get any help from bystanders, but, if I was a Chinese girl being hit by a ‘laowai’, I will get lots of help (as long as nobody knows I was dating him?). Further adding to the appeal of dating a foreigner over a Chinese guy, for Chinese girls!

    …and exotic different things will always have an appeal over normal things that you get everyday – even if you can’t actually live WITHOUT the normal things you find boring.

    Oh, men of all races can lie. It’s call the rule of three: multiple the number of partners a woman claim by three, and divide the number of partners a man claim by three! Just because the white guys are bragging doesn’t mean they actually have done it.

    Also, Protip for Chinese guys: It will be easier for you to land a date with a girl, be she Chinese or White, IF, you don’t badmouth Chinese girls dating white guys while trying to score dates with white girls – this gives the racist sexist impression that you think dating women is a method of conquest (instead of mutual consent) – that’s kinda of a turn off for most women. It will be easier for you to get a date, if you stay friends with girls who are dating other guys – that girl or that guy she’s dating might have a female friend that they know will match you!

  44. interesting polemic…
    I guess in 2019, can still be active.
    More and more Chinese girls are searching Love from Foreigner and are activly Searching for a Western man, any man… (at least in Shanghai)

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