Everywhere in Beijing, bus stops and magazine stands have advertised the June issue of Cosmo, with a purple-clad Sex and the City star Sarah Jessica Parker on the front cover. As I’m unfamiliar with the international magazine industry as it relates to China, I was eager to obtain a copy and see for myself what this hefty, 362 page issue contained. I flipped past the beauty, the fashion and the countless ads all the way to the end, and I was left feeling a bit unsatisfied. Something important was missing, and it didn’t take long to realize what it was. Where was the sex?
After all, this was Cosmopolitan, well-known since 1886 for catering to families and, later in the 1970s, specifically targeting a women audience with sexually liberating content. In the U.S., women (and men) grab it off the racks to learn all about 100 hottest sex tips, ways to make your partner happy in bed, as well as useful information on sexual health. It’s bold, but it offers a good resource for young women who might shyly refrain from asking a doctor their questions, even though an annual checkup is often recommended. So why is this opportunity absent from Cosmo’s pages for women in China?
In July 2009, Chinese government cracked down on websites relating to sexual health, allowing only “government-sanctioned medical institutions to provide sex-related content on websites.” These regulations were part of a broader mission to rid the Chinese internet of pornography. So it makes sense that popular magazines would also lack any mention of the “s” word to Beijing’s young readers. However, in a quickly changing cultural outlook on sex, described in previous ChinaHush posts, women might soon need another resource that they can feel comfortable researching independently.
Especially in many Chinese families, where the focus stays on school and family, discussing matters of sex can be completely embarrassing for women and teens. According to a 2009 survey, in the Beijing Evening Daily, nearly a fourth of the women surveyed said they wouldn’t feel comfortable telling a gynecologist about their problems, a dangerous statistic with the growing number of syphilis infections each year.
Men have their For Him Magazine, a British publication adopted for China’s readers that pictures scantily-clad women on the cover, but not in such a risqué way that it attracts attention from the government. The editors told the Asia Times Online in 2007 that they had to self-censor, but still managed to print content that discussed subjects that would make traditional Chinese’ eyes pop. These topics, however, mostly aim to provide a thrill for male readers, as many call the mag a “toned-downed version of Playboy.”
While there is no numbers on how many men grab FHM each year, it might be safe to say that as sex becomes less taboo, and pornography becomes non-existent, publications like these will become increasingly popular. When that happens, it is increasingly more important for women to have access to materials that will give them the emotional and physical confidence, knowledge, and empowerment that every girl deserves.
Ahhh… “Cosmopolitan”! The favorite magazine of Prymaat Conehead 🙂
Sex is filthy and disgusting and even thinking about it would take precious time away from studying, majong with grandma and more importantly, spending time in private English language schools. I fully support the no-boyfriend-no-sex-until-25 movement.
Or you could just make your priorities. Not saying to go out and do it, but you’re missing out man. At least get a “friend.” By 25, IT’S less skillful.
yeah u’d better stay in your room mastrubating right?
Guys… I think… hope… this was sarcasm.
Yeah he was joking.
Sexy is filthy and disgusting, but rape isn’t so bad, especially temporary rape.
I think it was Woody Allen that said: “Sex is filthy and disgusting… but only if you’re doing it right.”
so basically they tricked Chinese people:/
for fark sake man! China should allow porn! I wanna see nice chinese women’s ass get tapped all the time:)
I mean when you think about this, it’s controlling human beings!
You live in a country that completely isolates anything relating to Sexuality! How absurd!
You are only allowed to have 1 child. I mean it’s ridiculous!
And the ironic thing about me is that I f***ing hate magazines that always talk about sex and sh*, but I wanna see chinese women get tapped in their ass:P
that’s a sad country
There are groups (generally church groups) in the United States who feel basically the same way. The ones that aren’t cults don’t force their members to think a certain way, but so they have a different method, but the thing they’d like to accomplish is the same.
Some people in the US are addicted to porn and masturbation (as long as you’re below 8 times a day you’re not addicted right?), and I can see how someone living in a country that was once crippled by an addicted populace could worry about it.
Without condemning or condoning, I think this is one thing certain areas in the US have very much in common with China. But there are VPNs and https sites for getting to chair porn, the real question is “Who put that chick in a giant afro, and what were they thinking?”