Leftover women in Hong Kong to look for Mr. Right in mainland China
May 10th, 2011 by Olivia | Posted in Life Style | 63 Comments »From Guangzhou Daily via timedg.com:
“剩女” Shengnv (Leftover Women is now a buzzword in China to refer single or unmarried women over the age of 25. There are many different hierarchies of the left-over women. Single women between 25-30 are called “剩斗士” sheng dou shi (Left-over fighters), as women in this age range still have the energy and hope to find true love. Between 30-35, they are called “必剩客” bi sheng ke(pronounced the same as Pizzahut in Chinese, means literally “must win”), suggesting their chances of getting married are pretty small. For those above 35 years old, they are the “齐天大剩” qi tian da sheng (Leftover Kings, pronounced the same as the Monkey King in Chinese literally means heavenly leftover), because they have been viewed by many.
Leftover women are not only single, but are usually “three-high” too highly-educated, highly-paid and highly independent. Thus they usually have a relatively high standard for their material life. In Hong Kong, there’s the same phenomenon. Men in Hong Kong complain about Hong Kong women being too materialistic and first thing these women ask are their education background, job and salary. It’s like these women are doing target-based sales. Moreover, most of the leftover women don’t want to have children.
All these seems to give men in Hong Kong too much pressure and have made many men in Hong Kong turn their eyes to mainland China.In their eyes, the women in Mainland China are more submissive and more traditional, and thus are more suitable to start a family with. As more and more Hong Kong men now start their business in mainland China, the trend continues.
This however, has made things even more difficult for left-over women in Hong Kong, as there are more women than men. According to the government’s statics, the ratio of men to women in HK is 95:100. The gap will become even larger in 30 years, possibly to 80:100.
Usually, if there’s a marriage between people from mainland China and HK, it’s a HK guy marries a mainland China girl. But as shown in this picture, more and more HK brides go north to marry mainland guys.
“This year, we already had 3 groups of single women and men from HK come to Xiamen for the speed dating program. And almost every day there are people from Hong Kong who go to Xiamen for this program.” said, Ou Yang Aizhu, from the Xiamen organization for the speed dating program, “Women from HK are mostly looking for businessmen. Maybe because they’re from HK, the big city, they feel more comfortable to talk and easier to get along with the businessmen than with the men working in the government and other job position.”
A survey conducted by The Chinese University of Hong Kong shows, among 315 female students in the 6 universities in HK, more than 34% of them worry about living their life alone and 20% think there are too few men in HK and they have to join the speed dating program to know boys.
Tags: Chinese girls, Chinese women, dating, Hong Kong, leftover women, Mainland China, speed dating
Everyone knows they actually go to mainland to land foreigners
But they *dont know* they only get leftovers
Newsflash: Men really don’t want a challenge. (Honestly, who on earth would want to come home to a “challenge”?)
And “sophistication”? LOL. Also highly overrated. (I am born and bred in HK).
Educated, successful HK men want a beautiful sweet mainland girl. Who on earth would want a spoiled urban girl full of expectation? Those women are ruined and beyond repair. You took 12 years of piano lessons? Seriously, who gives a shit?
You got invited to the ‘secret sale’ at Prada? You know the difference between this years Mercedes and last years? I can’t think of more unattractive qualities. Give me a sweet lady from the mainland any day over these expectant little rats. They will never be happy. And they will complain until the day you die.
If these left-over women are looking for NSA fun, email me.
they know mainland has more men thus better chances of finding a mate, they have to lower their standards and adjust to mainland lifestyle
必剩客 does not mean ” must win” – it actually means will be/must be left over
Another note, I think the main reason the HK brides/grooms goes north to get married, is probably due to the rising economy in Mainland China now as well. I would say HK women are more traditional in some ways, because they are more okay about the husbands having a little mistress outside the marriage!
Thank God , chinahush is free now in china ~! I can hug it without proxy XD
Are you sure?
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And it says that the network is unavailable.
HK girls are notorious for being fugly…but then again if your hungry you’d be surprise what you would eat.
TAP SUM BONG!
They also wait too long to get married. Silly girls think that a career and another degree will make them more attractive. LOL. Men are simpler than that. Even highly educated ones.
Going to the mainland won’t do them much good; the problem with HK girls/women is that they are painfully shy, they don’t have the courage to look you in the eye; if they can’t look someone in the eye, how can they seduce someone?
Calling them “left-over women” only proves that China isn’t ready to join the world community. Only a country of peasants would consider an unmarried woman in her 30′s (or whatever) to be left-overs.
Grow up China, your complete ignorance is showing.
after 30 it’s really risky to have a kid, we over in USA label them the same things except in different term, why don’t you grow up.
The “ignorance” is that you believe that looks and attractiveness extend into a woman’s 30′s.
On *extremely* rare occasions they do. But those are the exceptions to the rule.
The idea that women should “wait” to get married was encouraged by ‘career-firsters’ in the West during the 80′s and 90′s, and by lesbian feminists who resented the laws of nature. Now the tragedy of those ignorant ideas is bearing fruit in millions of women around the world who are competing with younger girls who aren’t as philosophically damaged as you are.
The women are indeed “left over”. They are single against their wishes. However you want to put it — the facts are the same.
18000 marriages between H.K and Mainland, 81% of them are hong kong men and mainland women and yes H.K women are notorious for being ugly and beat their sons.
There’s a lot chinese men that married russian women.
Um, maybe they don’t want to get married and have babies so soon? The world is changing and most women I know would not marry in their 20s. That’s too young!
Good luck with that idea. Nothing is “changing” about the realities of sexuality. The only thing changing is your expectations of life.
When reality meets expectation, who do you think wins?
HK women are dull and boring but expect a Brad Pitt man. Did I say they are dull???
tony:
Did you read the article? The Hk women don’t want Brad pitt because Brad pitt is not highly educated. Hk women want men that can compete with them at their level. The HK women suffered from illness called “three-high” too highly-educated, highly-paid and highly independent.
These HK women should go for older men who are at least 20 yrs older with enough maturity and financial background, and won’t get mad because she is too independent. They should start signing up for matching program starting at age 24 so they can look for older men. I need to sign up soon after I finish studying.
And no HK women are not dull just because we don’t meet your ideal women of being a dumb blonde or submissive Asian.
cindy
“Hk women want men that can compete with them at their level.”
Hong Kongese women spend all their time coming up with qualities they “require” in men but it never occur to them why men of those qualities would ever consider Hong Kongese women. Hong Kong, or Chinese for that matter are the most self centered egotistic arrogant immoral beings on earth.
TAP SUM BONG
Hello tap sum bong, u smell like those Fat Americans.
Damn these American women are just like the south koreans women, so much plastic fantastic, why the hell do they need a boob job and so much plastic nose? Ohh yes because the American are fugly pigs, and the south korean have been poisoned by the American pigs.
Hail North Korea
HAil China
Hail Hong kong
Wallah!
I mean 10 years older.
Old rich white men needs love and young mistresses. Young Chinawomen need men with money. Match made in heaven…oh wait Chinese are atheist…match made in a bank!!
TAP SUM BONG!
Hello tap sum bong, I´m soon leaving south korean, damn these bitches in south korea are really fake. I keep telling them I´m not interested in south korean plastic girl, so they got angry and try to touch my weenie!!
Anyway tap sum bong, old rich white men need some black dick in their anus so they can feel the power of the revenge of the Africans. The african are palnning its revenge on making them as slaves.
Many african thanks China for helping them out without being sold as slave like the white man did. Now the black guy have resources they want the white man.
Oh by the way Korean guy = true Waaldo
Hemorrhoids,
http://www.weirdasianews.com/2012/03/27/fried-mice-exotic-delicacy/
“It is said that we are what we eat, but what happens when we eat things that would make most taste buds curl up and die?
To each culture its own, and it is said that for many Chinese, mouse meat is a sweet, tasty delicacy.
Locals in Guangdong province, southern China, are known throughout the country as people who will eat any food, no matter how it looks, sounds or tastes.
Mouse meat is far more expensive than more conventional meats such as chicken or pork, and is not for the faint of heart.
Those who indulge regularly claim that the meat is very versatile and that it can be enjoyed roasted, fried or boiled.
A special delicacy in China is cured mouse bacon, which is made into tiny strips and requires a very delicate carving technique.
Exporters in southern China are now seeking to export this delicacy to the rest of the nation so that others can enjoy this uniquely tasty dish.
“Some people worry that mice aren’t clean, but these are all wild, free-range mice caught in the countryside, and are very healthy. They are thought of as a special treat,” said Wan Shen, who owns a butcher shop where he sells freshly caught mice.
There are those in other parts of the world who eat fried mice, as evidenced by the video below.
Still, one can only say “to each his own” before retreating into a back bathroom and…throwing up.
Go figure.”
YES Chinese will eat anything!!
KONG KING DONG!
Wow, mouse bacon. I really need to visit Guangdong.
Hello tap sum bong, how cume you say u are korean but yet are neither interested in korea , and basically don´t even know where korea is!
But U know very much about all mighty China? OHHH yes thats because in real life you like China very much, and in reality you are a white guy, and to become a yellow person, you needed to turn into a korea guy because China don´t accept you mauahauahah
korean_guy:
You are one sad being. You know nothing about HK and all day long talking nonsense. I doubt that you’ve been to HK.
What is wrong with HK women wanting to find her equal other half in life? They work and study hard. Why? So they can marry to a loser like you who is complaining all day long about everything? Marriage is a life long commitment. Longer commitment than your job.
Thank God they have matching services for these girls and they are very popular now in HK. It allows the HK girls to sign up after they graduate from University. It save times for the girls instead of looking around dating unqualified men or men that are not serious. And thus allow her to focus her energy on establishing her career. These matching services do background check. It’s the same concept like submitting your resume apply for a job position. The most qualified person gets the position.
And what’s wrong with dating men who are 10 or 15 yrs older? These men who signed up with the services are usually actively looking for a wife and they are career established and mature men. They are not intimidated by professional high pay women. They are good quality men and are serious about getting a good quality wife.
The rest of the world cities like NYC and tokyo should learn from HK. They should get these services for professional men and women. HK people no doubt are consistently rated having the highest IQ in the world every year.
korean_guy, you sound like you are still living on a farm milking cow. This is 2012.
That korean guy ahve not left America once, he don´t afford it, man American people are really poor. 20% of the population live in the street, 30 % don´t even afford to their nearest country and all of USA people buy cheap things from MALLWART hahahaha
cindy
“korean_guy, you sound like you are still living on a farm milking cow. This is 2012.”
Yes it is 2012 and China remains a land of immoral peasants just crawling out of under shit and dirt sucking on cow breast and eating mice. China is a backwards antiquated country trying to hang in 21st century. God how pathetic!!
TAP SUM BONG!
cindy
“korean_guy, you sound like you are still living on a farm milking cow. This is 2012.”
2012 and China is still a knucklehead country.
This is a pictorial reminder of why I am so grateful I don’t live in the shit hole called China.
http://www.haohaoreport.com/l/34220
Get cracking and try to become civil China!
KONG QING DONG!
HAHAH korean white guy why u love america so much_+0?
Thats because he like to get american penis in anus hahaha or maybe his nose
korean guy:
They say HK 7 millions population but reality it’s really just 5millions native HK. So probably just 1 million or less young single hk women in the world. I am sure those so called “left over” women have no trouble if they are really so desperate to be married. But many of them wait for the right man. They want good quality men. And no..unlike you HK girls are not fugly. Go get a life.
cindy
“So probably just 1 million or less young single hk women in the world.”
That’s 1 million HK women too many. Who will marry these gold digging, loud and unattractive HK women only god knows.
“I am sure those so called “left over” women have no trouble if they are really so desperate to be married.”
There are plenty old white sensor citizens with money waiting for some young asian concubines.
“But many of them wait for the right man.”
You mean the right bank account!
“And no..unlike you HK girls are not fugly.”
Saying it doesn’t change reality. HK girls are known for their fugly-ness.
“Go get a life.”
HK women need a reality check and a life.
http://ihatehongkong2.wordpress.com/
“HK Princess Seeks A Perfect Caucasian Gentleman – Beautiful Marriage
I am a true pretty HK beauty who has lived and traveled overseas. I hope I might meet a very nice handsome gentleman for our beautiful marriage and develop a family together very soon. I am quite good looking in slim shape; heathly and DD free. I am not the 10 but I could be the 9 in the room when I dress up. I like to dress up classy to casual. I am looking for a very nice man with actions for our happy, golden and beautiful marriage very soon and develop a family together, you can do good things for me with good actions. I do enjoy peaceful and quite good times in clean and nice places with good views. I drink socially once in a while, just a couple glasses of wine and beer. I know that if a man loves a woman then you are willing to do things for me in reality with good actions. I prefer to have marriage and develop a family with whom is not a heavy drinker, smoker or drug users. You are not a man into bars’ sense very much. You are with all fine things for marriage and develop a family; you would like to have our own beautiful baby in the coming future so we can play with him or her. You are with clean cut and smart look in your 30s-40s years old who is gentle and nice, very trust worthy, one woman man, good looking , single, romance, caring, healthy and fit,, clean, DD free. You can take great care of a woman with all respect in every aspect. You can issue the no limit black cards and expensive membership cards and toys for me; share your net worth. You are easy to talk to but also serious. You can respect and appreciate a woman’s values by being with you. You can care for me in all aspects and love me. You can do what I need and want with fast and good actions. Fine dining out, drinks, shopping, travel to different places, live in, going out together, etc. Chemistry and attraction has to be there. Please send your photos, tel. no. and tell me something about yourself. Thank you.”
Hong Kong women can’t find a mate because their expectations are too high. Anyone who set their standards too high will never be satisfied.
Can you say “Sister FENG”??
TAP SUM BONG!
Korean guy:
You are a sad being. You are so angry all the time because all you can get at night is this. Now that is what I call fugly.
http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s157/MoMoneyMain/?action=view¤t=ugly-man-transvestite-fat-bitch-men.jpg
Only in your dream you can touch a natural beauty chinese girl in bed.
http://blog.xuite.net/hotnews/blog/54417553-%E8%B3%88%E6%9B%89%E6%99%A8
korean guy:
oh wait..sorry I forgot you like south korean plastic. You can close your eyes and pick one because they all look the same with jaw/cheek bones reduction shaved oval face, same nose, same eyes, and bleached skin. They are all over south Korea on the street. They start young.
http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/25200000/A-PINK-korea-girls-group-a-pink-25271609-1280-800.jpg
But I think he likes http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s157/MoMoneyMain/?action=view¤t=ugly-man-transvestite-fat-bitch-men.jpg
Because that is a american fat women, just like his mother, he want someone like his fat american mother.
I wonder how fat his american father is!
cindy
“And no..unlike you HK girls are not fugly.”
Mark Zuckerberg is trying to figure out how to lose this fat ugly Chinese girlfriend. He can have thousands of Chinese concubine that look better than her who don’t yell at you. But this digger isn’t going to let Mark go at any cost!
You’d think having a billionaire boyfriend you’d dress better and lose the chow mein ass!
http://micgadget.com/24312/has-mark-zuckerberg-been-spotted-at-shanghai/
Sucks to be Mark Z!
KONG QING DONG
MArk zuckerberg is a proof that chinese women are the most beautiful in the whole earth. Even he who have the money to buy whoever he wants, he takes a chinese girl.
He denies even his American women.
Thats proof Chinese women are the best in the whole world, all other nationality women are not beautiful enough.
Sucks to be white man, they yarn for yellow women because their own women are fugly, they even hate their own mother and daughter, sister haah white man is sure the most shittiest creature in the whole world. I mean to even hate their own women.
I´m proud to be Yellow compared to the white who wants to be yellow ahhahhahah
Hemorhoids,
“MArk zuckerberg is a proof that chinese women are the most beautiful in the whole earth.”
Chinese are not only vile and immoral, they are apparently blind as well.
KONG QING DONG!
Hemorrhoids,
“MArk zuckerberg is a proof that chinese women are the most beautiful in the whole earth. ”
Here is the proof
http://www.nytimes.com/imagepages/2012/03/27/world/JP-BO-3.html
Now that’s a Chinawoman!!
KONG QING DONG!
http://blogs.wsj.com/chinarealtime/2012/03/28/vote-permanent-residency-for-hong-kongs-maids/
“On Wednesday, a Hong Kong court of appeals overturned a landmark lower court decision that supported the right of the city’s nearly 300,000 domestic helpers, most of them from Indonesia and the Philippines, to gain permanent residency – a status that would allow them to remain indefinitely without fear of deportation.”
300K maids in that little armpit of asia HK?
That’s why HK women are also looking for rich white senior citizens who can afford maids because HK women are lazy and can’t cook or clean if their lives depended on it.
Be thankful you are not stuck in Shit Hole known as China or Armpit of Asia known as Hong Kong.
KONG QING DONG!
South Korean women kept as sex slaves by the Japanese army during World War II have held their 1,000th rally outside the Japanese embassy in Seoul.
A group of the women and their supporters unveiled a statue of a girl in traditional costume there.
Japan has repeatedly apologised and has offered lump-sum compensation, but many Koreans say this is not enough.
Up to 200,000 women are thought to have worked as sex slaves for the Japanese army in military camps before and during the war.
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Korean women want money and more money for unpaid sex.
What a sad bunch of people.
Japanese men better may be than Chinese men for Korean women, Korean men are no good at all.
http://www.wethewomen.org/entry/of-course-i-hate-them-chinese-woman-uncovers-the-brutal-story-of-sex-slavery/
According to the Chinese government, Japan has yet to repent properly for its war crimes, which included butcheries, forcing people to work as virtual slaves in factories, and as forced prostitutes……….Direct compensation have not been paid by Tokyo to any of the estimated 200,000 mostly Asian women forced to work as sex slaves for the Japanese military before and during World War II.
Japan did 10 times worst to China than Korea. Those Japanese soilders killed Chinese by hundred thousands and raped hundred thousands. They would go to villages and drag the girls out and rape them right there in front of the parents.
No Chinese run to Japanese embassy in China trying to get money and compensation year after year.
War is so sick. Every country need to educate their children about peace, harmony, and discrimination.
Thats why Chinese hate White people (opium,colonization,big moth, bad talking etc), those white bastards used so much violence back those days, and now they complain about ASIA are to violence bla bal even have manipulated korean_guy to being an American lover.
But wait USa still using violence, wanting war, dang, they like war those wankers USA. Dang the white even took black people, african as slaves, and like chop their fingers, rape them, etc, the fuck wrong with these white people?
And there is so many white perverts liking children , I mean WTF?!
And now they realize how much their country sucks so they go to ASIA, now ASIA is building up and becomes nr 1 bla bla haha, ICh bin , Ich bin, sehr gut, Hick, and you that white pigs, so piggy , haha korean_guy have been converted to american pig, he also is christianity, *hickÄ
*hiclk*
Heineken* hick, tsing tao , mao tao
Trolling trioll
*hick* tsing………………………………………………ein sweoing
Damn, Hong Kong billionaire stud brothers.
http://goldsea.com/Text/index.php?id=12755
KONG QING DONG!
cindy
“Japan did 10 times worst to China than Korea. Those Japanese soilders killed Chinese by hundred thousands and raped hundred thousands. They would go to villages and drag the girls out and rape them right there in front of the parents.”
No one, not even the Jap monkies, did worse than Mao “the dung” Ze Dung who murdered 70+ million Chinese.
KONG QING DONG!
But white nation did 20 times and japan even did South korean, now wonder south kjorean hates japanese, but this korean guy_don´t ebcause he is americvan, and emrican alliess japoanese
Korean guy:
You really need to shut up and stop spreading your poisonous words on this site or anywhere. You are ignorant to the level that’s unspeakable. You have no glue or idea the level of atrocity during Japan’s invasion of China in WWII. The crimes committed by Japan against China was unimaginable and absolutely horrific. The Japanese made Hitler Nazi look like sissy.
Go learn some history about WWII and stop living like a low life talking trash all day long.
Korean guy:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nanking_Massacre
“The Nanking Massacre or Nanjing Massacre, also known as the Rape of Nanking, was a mass murder, and war rape that occurred during the six-week period following the Japanese capture of the city of Nanjing (Nanking), the former capital of the Republic of China, on December 13, 1937 during the Second Sino-Japanese War. During this period hundreds of thousands of Chinese civilians and disarmed soldiers were murdered by soldiers of the Imperial Japanese Army.[1][2] Widespread rape and looting also occurred………..”
The Japanese were killing and raping every Chinese in sight. They butchered even young children for amusement, and kill for joy. It was estimated that they slaughtered , burned , buried alive in massive graves of at least 300,000 or more in Nanking alone. The Japanese were looting, stealing, and destroying everything; leaving the Chinese with nothing left and many starved to death.
They went house to house seeking for food to steal, to kill, to torture, to rape day and night. They even set up hundreds of “comfort women” camps were women were forcefully taken and served there. Many died serving to death. They ransacked Universities and schools and kidnapped the girls hiding there many times a day. They estimated over 200,000 women were raped throughout cities and villages in China. Until today, there are only 100 or less survivors lived to tell the horrific story.
So Japan… where are the compensations and apologies for these few survivors. Majority of them didn’t make it out alive to tell the world their story.
Tell me which country is more barbaric and evil?
Mao murdered MILLIONS of people… and to deny that means insanity. Where is the Chinese apology to it’s own people?
Chinese Jackass in Action:
“A wild wolf caught by police in Tengzhou, eastern Shandong Province where two villagers were bitten to death recently turned out to be a pet Husky, a zoologist said yesterday.”
http://www.shanghaidaily.com/nsp/National/2012/03/27/Wolf%2Bcaught%2Bby%2Bpolice%2Bturns%2Bout%2Bto%2Bbe%2Bpet%2BHusky/
KONG QING DONG!
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Mark Zuckerberg and his ailing eyes.
http://www.wantchinatimes.com/news-subclass-cnt.aspx?cid=1102&MainCatID=11&id=20120328000136
She’s an eyesore!
She doesn’t know that Mark Z. is in China to scout concubines.
KONG QING DONG!
I think U like her (if you were straigght, but If I rememver right u are korean gay lol), korean guy u are just jeaulus because korean women and the fat american women are doing plastic to look like chinese gurlz.
Nr 1 plastic fantastic 1. USA 2. South korea
HAHAHAHAHA
Chinese shameless jackass knucklehead shanzhai
http://www.engadget.com/2012/03/27/kirf-notes-are-the-slankets-of-the-phablet-world-video/
And the box isn’t even re-branded as SAMSHIANG or SHIANSUNG or SHENSHIANG.
SHANZHAI BANZAI and TAP SUM KONG QING DONG!
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Wow dinner…Chinese cuisine…two most favorite Chinese dish.
http://tt.mop.com/read_11710224_1_0.html
KONG QING DONG!
Circumcisions in South Korea has become a social tradition with boys usually being circumcised in a coming-of-age ritual.
It is also a common practice in South Korea where it is associated with keeping western hygiene standards up to US GI’s.
Concerns about hygiene, health and curbing masturbation led to an increase in circumcisions in South Korea during the last half of the century.
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Wow, what a sad bunch of people they are.
Damn this korean_gay knows more chinese websites than I do!
I knew it he is obsessed with china!
HAil China!
American fat people are almost so fat I do not recognize them, also south korean like plastic so much. Plastic fantastic….after USA of course
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