10-year-old boy shoulders his family, sells fruits to support 70-year-old grandpa

| September 19th, 2010

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"What is a typical 10-year-old boy’s life like? I think there should be cartoons and toys scattering around, scooter, after school plays, new clothes on festivals and lots of bounderless dreams. In a word, it should be a time when one enjoys love of the family and tastes the joyousness of growing up.”says the VJ of Discover Chongqing, who then introduces her subject of the day’s program: the untypical life a 10 year old boy Zhu Honglei (朱鸿磊).

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6 o’clock in the morning, knocks on the door awake Zhu Honglei up.  It is grandpa, the only one who lives with him in the old cottage. Mother went away years ago for sick of poverty, and father went to city to make money but never sends a penny home. Grandpa can’t work in the fields anymore, his rheumatism gets worse early this year, making him hardly get off bed, so Zhu Honglei becomes the man in the family, at only 10 years old.

Zhu Honglei rubs his eyes in the darkness. He pulls the lamp on, a squirrel swishes out of his empty window, but Zhu is used to it. He puts on clothes that he’s been wearing for a week. He only changes after shower to save the laundry, and he only showers once a week to save water. Every 4 days, Zhu will climb up to the mountain spring with neighbor, to fetch water and fill the tank at home.

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Getting off the bed, Zhu comes to the kitchen on the other side of the wall to make fire for cooking breakfast, which is fried pickles and some pumpkin  leftover from last night. Pumpkin is the main food in the house, there are always  5 or 6 of them in the corner to serve the table. Zhu can’t remember when is the last time he eats meat. He goes through his homework a bit in the glow of the hearth.

After breakfast with grandpa, it is half past seven. Zhu puts away the dishes and leaves for school. He has to be quick since there are about 5 km mountain roads to hike before he could reach school, which starts at 10. According to Liao Guoliu, principal of Cherry Elementary School, Zhu is never late for school. “There is a storm in July this year, resulting in a mudslide that blocks many mountain roads. We tolerate kids not coming to school whenever there is storm and mudslide. But Zhu climbed a whole other mountain to go around the mudslide for school. He arrived at 1 pm that day. Teachers were touched by his effort and made up his morning class for him before sending him home.”

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2 hours later, Zhu arrives at school. Class hasn’t begun yet so he goes play badminton with peers. Rackets belong to his desk mate, one of them is broken in handle. Zhu asked grandpa to replace the handle with wood, not very comfortable for hands though. He holds the racket with his right hand, and serve the shuttlecock up high. His pair gets it and returns a drop shot. Zhu rushes forward immediately but he fails to reach the ball in time. The ball touches ground, his peers laugh and so does Zhu, since he brags about his badminton skills before.

After a few rounds, Zhu is sweating with messy footwork. He sits on the ground and takes off his sandals that is thin as sheet and ruptured in fore sole. “I can’t play well today, because the shoes are too broken.” Zhu says the shoes are brought by his father when he is 7, it is meant to be oversized so that they can still fit as he grows up. Zhu’s best shoes are a pair of white mesh shoes. He takes very good care of them, wearing them only on Monday to flag-raising ceremony, other than that, he cleans them and put them away in the closet.

Class begins. Zhu sits at the 4th row. Due to his little body, he sits as straight as he can and tries his best to read out loud along with the rest of class.

Though there are over 300 people in Cherry Elementary School, it is too poor to build a canteen. Teachers and schoolchildren don’t have lunch. Many schoolmates will buy some snacks as lunch with their allowances. At such time, Zhu is all alone in the classroom. He will takes his book out and read quietly as if the book can distract his hunger. Zhu says he eats twice a day, breakfast and supper, he is used to it. He does have allowances sometimes. When grandpa’s plum trees come to fruits, he will climb up the trees to pick plums and sell them on market. “I can sell over 10 yuan a day, and use the money to buy salt and bean oil.” says Zhu, “people won’t bargain with me.”

When asked why doesn’t he buy snacks when he has the money, Zhu says: “ Grandpa won’t have anything to eat at home, I can’t eat.” He says so with tears in his eyes. Walking hours between mountains and enduring hunger at noon, this is school life for the 10-year-old boy Zhu Honglei.

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3 pm, school’s dismissed. Zhu rushes home more hurry than coming to school. Because he knows there is a 70-some grandpa waiting at home for him to make supper. After supper, Zhu sits at the kitchen doorway, doing his homework before sun goes down. Just because of this kind of persistence and diligence, Zhu Honglei moves from bottom in the class to above average.

Finishing homework, Zhu will stand at the doorway staring at the sunset. Rice reserve is about out, corn harvest gets only couples of kilograms, pumpkins in the field haven’t been ripe, eggplants and carrots are still small. But Zhu says: “I will guarantee grandpa’s fullness even if I eat less.” He is already shorter than his peers due to malnutrition.

The image of mother is fading in Zhu’s memory, though he remembers clearly the best food he eats is the cake mother brought on his 5 years old birthday. “There is cream, really sweat, and flowers and jujubes.”

As for father who abandoned the family, Zhu doesn’t hold disappointment and grudge as grandpa does. He still hopes that father will show up at the front door one day.

Zhu fumbles around his closet, and takes out a letter he wrote on an exercise book. He reads: “Dad, I miss you and mum. Can you come back and take me to mum? Grandpa is sick and needs to go to hospital. I can’t sell enough fruit to pay for that. I hope you can earn money and come back early. I will study hard, don’t worry about me. I will take good care of grandpa.”

Zhu Honglei doesn’t know what to put in the “TO” blank, so he saves the letter in the closet.

(Via cqnews.net)

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  1. En says:

    the normal life of a 10 year old boy in china is:
    go to school
    do your homework
    english lesson
    art lesson
    sport lesson
    at least 3 more topics or extra stuff to study
    be reminded by your parents you must study harder to be the best
    go to sleep having nightmares about tomorrow’s lessons

    • GuoBao says:

      Then at the gaokao you realize that everyone else has been doing the same thing meaning that you’ll be lucky if Qinghai College No. 19 is willing to accept you, and when you graduate you’ll have to accept a 1000 kuai a month paycheck in “apprentice pay” for your first year at a shitty company that will make you slave away 10 hours a day 6 days a week and at the end of they year will kick you out when they have to pay you real money and hire a new graduate instead. Meanwhile you can’t find a girlfriend ‘coz they all demand that you buy them a big house, a big car and a gigantic dog so that they can brag to all their airhead friends. At 25 you’ll realize that life in modern China and it’s “Capitalism with Chinese characteristics” (read: raging, uncontrolled free enterprise but with no kind of government accountability to keep it in check) and find yourself standing in the middle of an 8 lane freeway sporting a bottle of baijiu in one hand, an huge ax in the other wearing a pair of pyjamas while the police try a half-assed attempt at talking you into surrendering (to keep their backs clear as 100 rubbernecking Chinese guys with camera phones are doing their thang) before they riddle you with bullets.

      • En says:

        hahaha

        i’m sorry for this kid but i bet he’ll be rich and satisfied by the time his classmates get their diploma which says something like “we declare you brainwashed enough to enter society and continue the socialist revolution”

        or at least he’ll be able to wash his own sck and take care of himself
        jiayou little brother

    • Carl says:

      take off that sport lesson if you will

  2. Tony D says:

    Titles like “the world’s 2nd biggest economy” mean nothing when children have to live like this.

  3. BlackSugarDaddy says:

    This is China ! ! !

  4. UMAD? says:

    Tony D, U MAD>

    • AlleyCat says:

      Tony Danza is better known for his role on “Who’s the Boss?”. Danza portrayed a retired american baseball player working as a housekeeper and single father. You can’t blame him for being a bit self-serving.

  5. Shane says:

    I watched the video even though I don’t understand Mandarin.

    Zhu Honglei, “I will guarantee grandpa’s fullness even if I eat less.”. What 10 year do you know who possesses this level of responsibility? Zhu has true character. Good luck little brother.

  6. m says:

    The writer tries to pawn this off as a sob story, but little man sounds like he’s actually learning good enterprising, survival skills – as long as he has enough time to socialize.

    2 meals a day is miraculous for abject poverty – pumpkins are loaded with vitamins. I did loads of chore around the house (cooking, cleaning) at his age too, with a single parent always away working. Maybe this is “tragic” (beyond the parental abandonment, duh!) because as a male single child, he’s supposed to be “little treasure” pampered up to the eyeballs? But really he’s gonna make someone a great husband/father one day, instead of those laying around with entitlement issues.

  7. vonskippy says:

    Isn’t communism great!

    Nice to see all his comrades are pitching in and helping out.

  8. Eason says:

    This kid is the Chinese Ubermensch, the Chao Ren. The model of “filial piety” that all Confucious-fearing Chinese should vie to represent.

  9. AzNjTsE says:

    Good luck to this kid,
    like eason says, this kid is hella filial
    hope he becomes successful one day

  10. xino says:

    damn man!

    so the person who spoke to the boy and interviewed him, did he/she even spared him some money?

    no offense but the 70 year old man should just die man, so the kid’s life can ease out. Because the kid is trying really hard for him though that is true love.

    Seriously, his life will be hard if he keeps this up, because he will need to attend school in higher education, making sure he is never late, doing homework, course work, studying etc.

    Also how can he remember what he learnt from school if he doesn’t eat?
    because truthfully if you don’t eat at school, you won’t be able to concentrate and have the energy to enjoy the subject so to remember it.

  11. sure says:

    navelgazing spoilt brat poser materialist china can learn a thing or two from this kid.

  12. kels says:

    i completely agree with you “SURE”. you are right i mean hello whats wrong with people im young and even i can see wrong. im not even 18 and i know this….

  13. human says:

    This is really remarkable story… can I get more details of this kid….

  14. it is a great idea to take your kids in art lesson workshops because it helps them develop –

  15. helsinki says:

    Man…compared to this kid…..we’re all pussies. He’s pure boss indeed.

  16. sbisking says:

    Wow, what “that little guy” has his head on right. If I could send him $1000 USD and be sure he got it … I’d do it just to help the little guy out! Nobody else is helping him out and he’s only 10 years old! He’s a child!

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  18. Linda says:

    Yes I so would donate some money to this kid. I can’t believe some of the comments before mines! One guy said the grandpa should die??? Seriously what kind of person wishes death on another person? If someone can guarentee this kid will get the money I am able to do a fundraiser for him.

  19. ahlost says:

    Hope the parents will be back after knowing the kid and grandpa’s situation.

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